This past Sunday at church, the speaker mentioned his wife was working on a book proposal.
My ears perked up and I initially thought, "Oh I should go introduce myself. Maybe there is a way I can help her."
Within moments of that thought, doubt crept in.
Oh, I hate going up to strangers. It's awkward.
What if she doesn't need my assistance?
Maybe I don't have as much insight as I think.
As the negative thoughts crashed down, I had to stop myself.
Sure, introducing yourself to strangers is a bit difficult, but I've done it hundreds of times during my giving journey.
And maybe she doesn't need help, but what if she does? It's better to offer and she not need it then to not offer and she did need it.
And I do have a tremendous amount of knowledge to share with someone writing a book.
In fact, I'm coaching others on writing their own books.
I'm not a fraud.
I proceeded to go down the list of all my writing and publishing experience.
After church ended, I walked, against the flow of people exiting, down the aisle and introduced myself.
And I'm so glad I did. I had nothing to worry about it. She was so kind.
Offering our experience and our talents to others is a great gift we can give.
Maybe your children are grown, and you can give a little advice to a new mom.
Or did you recently lose weight and have a friend that's struggling in this area? Share a few tips what worked for you.
We all have gifts to share with others but often we feel like a fraud. We might downplay our knowledge and experience, or think there is someone better.
If you feel a tug, to share your knowledge, have the confidence to push past fear and doubt and help someone, you may be the difference in their failure or success.
Inspirational Speaker and Award-Winning Author of "The Giving Challenge: 40 Days to a More Generous Life" and “The Gratitude Challenge: 41 Days to a Happier, Healthier, & More Content Life”
You are so right, Stephanie! I have “just “ been an at-home mom to my two kids. Any time that I “catch” a young Mom doing a great job or handling a situation with her kiddos well, I try to approach her afterward and just let her know that she is doing a great job. I just try to give feedback (which Moms do not get often) that she is doing the most important job in the world, and that she will reap the benefits when her kids are older.
At first, however, I would hear self-talk like ,”What if she thinks I am a creepy old lady?” or “Why should she care what I think?” But I have had nothing but the most wonderful feedback. Most young Moms are so tickled to have any encouragement that they absolutely light up.
Your post today reminded me of this.